I still remember the sensation of coming into my spiritual gifts.
It felt like a burst of sunshine - like I was gaining superhero powers.
Almost overnight, I could perceive details about people's lives. I could absorb vast amounts of information and even anticipate global events. I distinctly remember a cab ride when I accurately sensed the driver's health and relationship issues. It felt incredible. And I felt invincible.
Very quickly, two strong feelings emerged.
First, a deep sense of personal responsibility. I knew these gifts weren’t to be taken lightly. As Spiderman wisely shares, "With great power comes great responsibility."
At the same time, I also felt a growing sense of superiority. I thought others lacked sophistication, especially those who hadn't progressed as far on their spiritual journey.
I don’t think I’m alone, spiritual arrogance is common.
But here’s what I’ve learned:
If we think we’re better than others, we’re missing the point.
The truth is - we’re all interconnected, woven from the same divine fabric.
Each of us is a unique expression of the same Source, choosing distinct paths to experience life. Our spiritual evolution is not to establish superiority; rather, it represents alternative ways to embrace our human existence.
As bearers of light, it's important to have the confidence to live our purpose in the world.
And, it's just as important to remain humble. Confidence should inspire and uplift others, rather than feed our ego. As leaders, it’s our responsibility to hold our divine power with compassion for fellow beings, enabling them to realize their own divine potential. This requires us to stand alongside, rather than above them.
In doing so, we become a blueprint for a new way of being.
A way of being characterized by discernment, self-restraint, and compassion.
To embody a confident yet humble approach, there are several aspects to consider:
Embrace confidence: Self-assuredness is essential for making progress and leaving a lasting impact. You were gifted with unique skills, gifts, and abilities. Own them.
Respect the Divinity within: You are a vessel of Source energy, treat yourself with reverence to honor the sacredness within.
Serve others with humility: Shift your focus from self-importance to service. Use your spiritual power to uplift others, rather than seeking personal validation. Approach your interactions with humility, seeking to empower others on their journeys.
Surrender to the Power: Understand that Source energy comes through you, not from you.
I’ll admit, I’m still navigating the delicate balance of confidence, humility, and occasional feelings of superiority. It's natural to push the boundaries and test our limits, it helps us gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and relationship with Spirit. At the same time, it's important to remain accountable within our communities. By approaching our spiritual gifts with humility, we unlock access to even greater power.
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